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UNCONDITIONAL LOVE

 

 


Dear Ladies and Gentlemen,

Do you believe in unconditional and real love? Can you imagine a courting just like in romantic comedy movies? Can you think about an unheard-of commitment among the lovers? Unfortunately, most of the people do not believe in any kind of love, especially which is seen in the romantic comedy movies. Although accessing such a pure love is really hard, it is definitely not unbelievable. Therefore, today I am here to talk about how a “childhood sweetheart” can convert into a lovely spouse…

I would like to start with the definition of “unconditional, real and pure love”. What comes to your mind when you think about “unconditional love”? How can be “pure love” created between two adorable lovers?

In my opinion, the first condition should be equality among the spouses. There is a serious global problem, which is “gender differences and inequality” in each and every part of the world. Let’s do not deny it. The inequality and injustice in gender differences is the most prominent part, just as a cog in a clock. If one cannot change this unpleasant situation, then the cogs will not start to work. Women do not have to do all the duties and housework in their homes. Women also work during the day, and they also have the right to relax! Women are no more dependent to their husbands! Men do not possess their wives! Women can have a wonderful life on their own! Don’t you think ladies, you are going to make a bright future? Therefore, in order to overcome the injustice between men and women, we -as women- should fight up against the wall. I strongly believe that we will prevail this harsh, dreadful and tedious fight. The victory is waiting for us!

The second condition of pure love is having the same expectations in the marriage. Unless you and your spouse have the same thoughts about marriage, you will not be able to live happily ever after. After a while the love and the spirit between the lovers will wane. There would be a pivotal point which will lead to divorce, unpleasantness and stress.

The next point is about commitment… Lovers must be committed to each other. They should love each other more than themselves. They should foster each other both mentally and physically. Their intimacy should be incredible and admirable, just like in Romeo and Juliet. Of course, your love story does not have to end that tragic! Everyone around these spouses should chat about their unconditional love, pledge and commitment. By the time you reach such a lovely relationship, you should definitely marry that person!

Let’s continue with a really romantic and admired courting. Three years ago, I have met a man whose attitude was wonderful towards everyone, at my friend’s wedding ceremony. When I first saw him, I thought that he was an ideal spouse, just like Mr. Darcy… His way of looking was unheard of… Especially while he was looking at me, I could feel the purity and intimacy in him. While he was talking to people, his voice and tone was as smooth as clouds. After a while he came over and started to chit-chat with me. While we were talking, we both realised that we have known each other! We were friends when we were at primary school. By the time we figured out this unbelievable event, I remembered that I liked him while we were kids. He suddenly told me that he felt like me at the primary school. I could feel the intimacy and passion in the air. At that very moment he went down on his knees to make a proposal! Of course, I accepted his lovely proposal. Now we have been married for three years, which is an excellent example of unconditional love… A childhood sweetheart converted into a passionate husband.

All in all, if one wants to achieve that “unconditional love” there are three steps: equality between genders, same marriage expectations and commitment. These three tips are key to pure, romantic and admirable love… Unconditional love is not only seen in romantic comedy movies. I hope all women will reach this happiness.

Thank you for listening to me.

Suzan R. Hofstede

16.12.2021

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